Your relationship started off so well. You guys were inseparable and you did everything as a couple. Everything was gone well in your relationship, and then one day you started noticing changes in your boyfriend. He was so sweet at first and he treated you like a Queen. Now you spend lots of time at home and he is going out without you. You suspect something is going on and you don't want to just come out and ask if he has someone else or if he is cheating on you, but you can't take this any longer. So how to tell if your boyfriend is cheating and what are the steps to dealing with a cheater.

Cheating in relationships rears its hurtful head everywhere, and I don't have to tell you it's a devastating killer. What if there were an option to cheating in relationships that didn't have to involve fiery break-ups and divorce lawyers; that didn't have to spell betrayal and dishonesty; and that didn't have to make enemies of allies? And what if this option challenged how we define the gold standard of relationships: monogamy?